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How It Works

Dating safely starts with knowledge — check your potential date's backround information in just a few minutes.

Take Control of Your Dating Safety

Don't become a statistic.

Our comprehensive background verification service helps you make informed decisions about your matches before meeting in person.

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28%
of online daters experience digital harassment and abuse
14%
of dating app assaults happen during first meetings
5x
higher risk of sexual coercion for online abuse victims
2x
more likely to face physical violence after online abuse

Put Your Safety First

  • 01

    Recognize Digital Abuse Warning Signs

    Digital abuse includes excessive monitoring of your online activity, unsolicited explicit messages, threats made through digital platforms, and attempts to control your social media presence or communications.
  • 02

    Understand Connected Risks

    Online and offline abuse often occur together. Protecting yourself digitally directly contributes to your physical safety, as cyber abuse frequently escalates to in-person violence.
  • 03

    Verify Before You Meet

    With 14% of dating app assaults occurring during first meetings, background verification helps identify potential red flags before dangerous situations develop. Knowledge is your first line of defense.
  • 04

    Set Digital Boundaries

    Establish clear boundaries in digital communications early in any relationship. Be wary of partners who attempt to control, manipulate, or monitor you through technology platforms.
What This Means for Your Safety
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Frequently Asked Questions

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